Fact Sheets

Relationship Issues

A relationship may involve the interaction of two people, or may involve the way a person relates to a group of people such as work or sporting colleagues. There are many aspects of how a couple relate to each other in the context of their relationship. This depends on whether the couple are just good friends (as in good mates) or whether the couple are involved in a loving and sexual relationship. It also depends on whether the couple are same sex or opposite sex. A good relationship for a couple is the foundation stone for a mutually satisfying sexual relationship.

Relationships are not always equal and require much compromise by both members of the partnership. Desire discrepancy is an example of differing sexual needs within the relationship. There are many factors that determine the differences and similarities that attract two people to each other thus forming a relationship that may or may not flow smoothly.

All relationships benefit from both good effective communication and commitment to making the relationship succeed. All relationships require ongoing maintenance and attention no matter how good or bad the situation is. Couples benefit from time alone, especially when children are present. Children pose extra stress on all relationships particularly over differences of opinion on parenting techniques. It is also important for each member to have time out to pursue his or her own interests but not to the detriment of the relationship.

Over time sexual needs change in relationships so the importance of ongoing affection and attention to each partner must always be emphasised. There are many self help books available which address the many issues that most couples face at one time or another. Sometimes the problems prove too difficult to manage without outside help. Relationship or couples counselling may then be an appropriate treatment.

To find out more about relationships please visit the Australian Relationship support website on www.relationships.com.au

If you, a friend, or a family member suffer from relationship or any sexual problems and would like to know the best advice or treatment alternatives, please contact 02 93876966 to make an appointment.